It's August. Hot, late summer feels like a lull in the year, a natural time to indulge human laziness before starting up again in the fall. My friends in France are on vacation for the month. People all over the world who have the wherewithal to do so are taking a break. Still, lots of people I know are still busy. I am. What about you?
Breaks and pleasure are essential for good health and good sex. Even if you're slammed at work or busy getting ready for school to start th
Do you ever feel at a loss about how to feel more desire, enjoy sex more, reignite a spark that was once there, or to want sex again? Most people will hit a sexual lull at some point (or multiple points) in life, whether it lasts an evening or a few months or a few years.
At these points it can be helpful to take inventory. Most of us will ask ourselves, "What turns me on?" While this is a fine question, it will only get us part of the answer. In The Return of Desire, sex t