Why "what turns me on?" is the wrong question to ask
Do you ever feel at a loss about how to feel more desire, enjoy sex more, reignite a spark that was once there, or to want sex again?...
Esther Perel's fantastic TED Talk on infidelity
As she says, this talk is for anyone who has ever loved. A must-see:
Do you feel disposable?
Today I'm talking to the women out there. This topic is loaded with gender politics so, even though men experience feeling disposable...
Coping with sexual pain
An article published recently in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that, for women who experience vulvo-vaginal pain, women's and...
On insecurity, self-doubt, and low self-esteem
How many of us haven't felt the dull ache of insecurity at important times in our lives? Sometimes we're going along just fine and then...
Pleasure, not performance
One of the main themes of my work with people is focusing on pleasure in sexual encounters, rather than performance. So many of us show...
Do you have a lower sex drive than your partner?
A common concern among couples is that one partner desires more sex than the other. That may be more frequent sex, more "adventurous"...
10 treatments for vaginal pain and vulvodynia
Pelvic pain is decidedly in the NO FUN category of human experience, and many people who experience it feel at a loss for how to handle...
Sexual stereotypes
If you read my last post, you know I have strong opinions about pervasive stereotypes that shape our thinking about men's and women's...
